#!/bin/bash

ssh user@server "tail -n 5 ~/.irssi/fnotify ; : > ~/.irssi/fnotify ; tail -f ~/.irssi/fnotify " | sed -u 's/[<@&]//g' | while read heading message;  do  /usr/bin/notify-send -i gtk-dialog-info -t 300000 -- "${heading}" "${message}"; done